Community Guidelines

At fethr, our mission is to gift you those magical moments of true, social connection whilst also fostering a more inclusive, diverse and open world. 

That is why we created these guidelines to help protect our community, whether for online or in-person meets. By creating a fethr account, you agree to these guidelines and our terms of use. Failure to adhere to these guidelines or terms may result in the termination of your account. 



Respect all members of the fethr community 

Our community is all about inclusivity and diversity, which means respecting people whatever their gender, sexuality, race, religion, class or other differences. We would encourage our members to contact us immediately if a member fails to adhere to this, either online or offline. We take a zero-tolerance approach to discrimination of any kind. 


Be You 

At fethr, we spend time verifying each member’s profile. Despite this, we cannot 100% guarantee that each member is filling in genuine information about themselves. Please only provide genuine information about yourself whilst online as well as within our community.


Social first

Fethr meets are primarily for making meaningful, social connections. Have respect for one another. 


Support each other

At fethr, we are a community. Members are empowered to call out inappropriate behaviour if they see it. Each one of us plays an important role in keeping the community safe. If you notice that someone is distressed during a meet, ask to see if they are okay. If there is someone else causing distress to an individual or the group, report them straight to us via our online chat platform 

Only registered members allowed to attend meets

This is integral to delivering safe and secure meets, as well as making sure we are matching you with the most compatible group, every time.